Over It -
I'm glad I'm not the only one in the world that feels this way. I'm sorry to hear about your husband's previous affairs. I'm wondering if it has that much to do with it since you said before that you didn't have a high sex drive.
I wonder if having kids can sometimes just make us lose the desire... shift of hormones where maybe they are still there but don't work right?! Who knows?!
Like I said though, it is comforting to know I'm not the only one!