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Originally Posted by jesyka
Thanks. I agree with everything that you said. As for the toxic mooch, she was hanging out with us both at first. She did feel sorry for her. And in a sick way, thet enabled each other.
I actually warned her about that user but she told me that she didn’t want to talk about things or something like that. Fast forward to now & she admitted that woman is a liar & a user.
She’s a people pleaser. I think she thought she was doing me a favor & the moich too as she had no friends period. I can see why now. Everything was always about her.
She didn’t have the guts to just stop hanging out with her until now. Even now she just says she’s’ ‘to busy’ to her when she texts her still. I think that she’s afraid of hurting other people’s feelings or confrontation’.
I don’t understand her at all. She seems OK sometimes then distant at other times. Weird!
I agree with what you said about not wanting to discuss normal feelings. I think she has an avoidant personality.
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From the way you describe her, she doesn’t seem to care about other people’s feelings at all. Like, she tells people what SHE thinks that they want to hear. And, most of the time, people can see right through her lies and do nothing bc they must know on some level, she can’t be held accountable for her lies because she doesn’t care.
So, since you know she’s “fake,” then that should make you feel less attached to her. People like her just go on with their lives, not caring who they hurt with their lies. I know women like her.
She isn’t worth your time. Don’t give her a second look. She’s superficial, won’t let anyone hold her accountable for her actions, and she tells people what they want to hear because that’s who she is at her core.
It really is a waste of your time to try to get her to be honest with you or anyone else. She just doesn’t care enough to respect your feelings. She’s not worth your time.