Why would he expect you to do chores in his home if you don't live together? Were you his slave?

This was a very unhealthy relationship - he is an addict and is very unhealthy.

Good for you for ending it! I am sorry you had to deal with a barrage of character attacks. Try not to take it too personally. He is likely hurt you broke it off and is just lashing out at you, with anything he can pick at - even if it makes no sense.

Stay in your truth - the truth shall set you free. I would not speak to this man again and I would not stay in touch. Who needs that kind of a friend?