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Jun 17, 2023, 11:15 AM
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Desert Kitty hates titles
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Member Since: Jul 2008
Location: TARDIS
Posts: 12,534
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Originally Posted by willowtigger
I just found out again that I'm on a ignore list - anyone who knows me, knows that ignore lists are a major major trigger for me.
This is forcing me off of the forum. If someone wants to mentally ignore me that's fine, but finding out I'm on any ignore list reopens stuff that happened on a different forum.
If I leave here I will be using a different forum that I help out on, instead.
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I hope you don't leave. You are so kind and I'll miss your posts. If you do, I hope you find a better place to be.
It's triggering to me too, as these are people I used to talk to ALL the time for years.  And it's on other sites. I didn't DO anything to them. Wth?
Yeah it's a self-care tool, whether here or elsewhere but it doesn't have to be so BLUNT. It sounds accusatory. "YOU are on this person's ignore list" like "YOU have been charged with assault." It's the verbiage used.
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