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Originally Posted by pliepla
I started Tinder four days ago. I hope that, if I get to know a few people, my stress over this situation will go down (you know, the perspective thing).
Overanalyzing is my way of dealing with anxiety. I know it does not help me but I have no alternative (therapy never helped me with that). I suppose you mean I should just let things happen and see where it goes?
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You could just let things happen or you could ask her if she’d be interested in dating you and then you’d have your clarity. I don’t think assuming she is insecure or needs this or that is going to get you anywhere. If a man liked me in a romantic way, I’d like to know up front so I’d either reciprocate or put a stop to it. I’d not want someone to agonize about me or analyze me why I smiled or what I liked erc or me unknowingly leading him on.
A woman is going on dates. It means she’s open for dating.