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Old Jun 18, 2023, 08:15 AM
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Originally Posted by pliepla View Post
The person in question is insecure. She spends a lot of her time on social media and hanging out with people because she has a hard time connecting to people. She is lonely. She has similar mental issues (I know from a previous experience that is not necessarily a problem if you share other things than these issues).

We share a passion (tango), many interests (arts, jazz but not in exactly the same way which makes things more interesting) and we could have met if we hadn't suffered from depression (in fact, we met dancing). That is why I am convinced we could be a good match.
Spending lots of time hanging out with other people and on social media is not a proof of insecurity whatsoever. I’d not assume those things.

How to you know she’s lonely? Did she say that? Well yeah actually it could be she is lonely and wants a partner and that’s why she goes on dates.