I find something else interesting. You seem to assume that you fall in love first and then ask a woman out and get to know her. You are putting cart before the horse. It doesn’t work that way. If you are interested in someone, you spend time together trying to get to know them. Then if you two click, it becomes more frequent and yes you might fall in love or not. But you can’t do it in reverse. Plus what you feel for these women might not be love at all, you don’t know them enough outside of a workshop or whatever activity you engage.