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@black-roses I hear you. Some parents live vicariously through their children. Rather than work on their own problems they make their life one of getting totally involved with their children. That to me is helicopter parenting.
There are simple solutions but often simple solutions will not work. If your mother would write down what she wants to tell you that could help if that is possible. Less yelling.
I go to the public library to work on things in silence. Having your own space is helpful. If I cannot have time alone in the day I restructure my schedule and do more while others sleep.
Whatever you decide, try not to judge your mom as inherently bad. She may mean well even if the result is not good. At least if you do not judge her that might help you not get so upset when she does yell.
I have to have lists to work from. That helps me focus even when things get stressful.
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