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Originally Posted by Bill3
If it were as simple as that, she would not have agreed to go out with you to begin with.
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Can you elaborate? I invited her a number of times. She always seemed happy but consistently let me know a day in advance she could not make it. She did propose alternatives at times. But isn't this a signal that she did not really want to hang out with me?
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Originally Posted by Bill3
The "I'm not good enough" narrative comes from the negative voices in you, which arise from the negative people in your past.
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I do know that I suffer from a negative self image. But the other one is better, isn't he? If nobody ever chooses me, doesn't that mean that there is always somebody who is better? I should become spectacular and I can't.