(((RD))) you will have these painful days, it is part of the grieving and learning how to come to terms with the truth of just how cold someone we wanted to love can be. It’s hard for a caring honest genuine person to wrap their mind around because it simply not anything they would ever do themselves.

For the last years of my parents lives my sister took full advantage of their trust and mental decline. My sister extorted thousands of dollars and took valuable items and she also used my mothers credit card to purchase money for herself. I could go on and on with all the awful things she did and right to very end of settling the estate through probate.

This is someone I loved and cared about my entire life. When I read about narcissists it’s like I am reading all about her. At times I thought I was going crazy. This can’t be, how can someone be this bad?

These bad days are hard, have experienced it myself. Please be patient and don’t fall into blaming yourself. Don’t feed into the anger or react because this is what let’s them know they have power over you. It’s just a sick twisted mind. The best way to go forward is no contact.

I am at the point where I am finally finished and have no interest in having any contact and I don’t want to know anything about her. I don’t wish bad or want to
engage in any negative patterns. I basically remain deeply disappointed and disgusted.

It takes time to process so be patient.