I wish the world were more ideal where we all had jobs and families that complemented and nourished our authentic selves.
You can learn to feel better in your relationship with money. It's something you can learn. Knowing you have an issue with money is the first step to solving it.
Also, knowing your personality type might help you figure out work that you'd enjoy.
This is similar to the Myers-Briggs Personality Type test and is free:
Free Jung Personality Test (similar to MBTI / Myers Briggs)
And as an aside, what I've just said goes for me, too.