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Originally Posted by divine1966
I am not sure what “being spectacular” means. Like standing out in some ways? It has no importance in regards to relationships as like Bill said it’s about a good fit. But also it’s subjective. What someone considers “spectacular” is not true for everyone
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That is exactly what I mean. Like being a poet. I am a painter - the feedback I get is taht I am way above the level of the classes I take - but somehow that does not seem to count.
I have always been a smart kid. People expected a lot from me. I was a physics olympiad finalist in my country and wanted to study physics. I was not allowed and failed at my plan B, ending up in what my father had evisaged as my future. That is when feeling inadequate began to grow to problematic proportions.