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My therapist asked me what "relaxing" means to me, and I said a hot cup of coffee, a game, and nothing else to do for the rest of the day... with the emphasis on that last one. I've found that if I have something I have to do later - even if it's something I want to do - it'll be all I can focus on and then I can't relax. "

I feel that way too, sometimes.