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Originally Posted by RDMercer
Yeah, I do want to "save" her. I also want my kids to be validated by her. I want her to see me as a good person and value me. I want to be loved by her.
Still through all this, I can see good in her, and I can see things that I have always wanted in my life from her.
Those feelings were unique to her. I'm almost 50.... This is the only person I've ever been in love with, or wished for. I've never experienced "the one who got away".
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That's a tough place to be
Those are all valid feelings, it's hard to know what to say.
Maybe it's okay to feel strongly about someone, but also recognize that they aren't good for you. And then choose yourself despite the pain.
I don't know. My heart goes out to you.
