Also...

Also...

The comment about me not being able to be in a normal relationship without having to pursue someone.....

I think it might be the opposite.

There's a woman my wife and I knew for about 15 years. She's about 10 years divorced. Last weekend she let me know she'd appreciate my company to watch some Marvel movies, or Fast and Furious, or just to come for a visit, a meal...

This woman is just so CHILL. She's just.... calm, easygoing, and just easy to be around.

Holy jeeeeez I am fighting acting on that right now! She is SO easy to be around.

It's just so appealing to be around non drama.

I shouldn't date ANYONE until my head is sorted, and I sure wasn't going to act while in such a low state of mind.