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Old Jun 22, 2023, 12:05 PM
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Originally Posted by RDMercer View Post
Also...

Also...

The comment about me not being able to be in a normal relationship without having to pursue someone.....

I think it might be the opposite.

There's a woman my wife and I knew for about 15 years. She's about 10 years divorced. Last weekend she let me know she'd appreciate my company to watch some Marvel movies, or Fast and Furious, or just to come for a visit, a meal...

This woman is just so CHILL. She's just.... calm, easygoing, and just easy to be around.

Holy jeeeeez I am fighting acting on that right now! She is SO easy to be around.

It's just so appealing to be around non drama.

I shouldn't date ANYONE until my head is sorted, and I sure wasn't going to act while in such a low state of mind.
Oh I didn’t say you won’t be able to date or that you need to date now at all. I meant you could have some difficulty if you got used to chasing a dream. I am glad to hear that you are enjoying company of low drama people. I’d love to be wrong and find out you enjoy easy going healthy interactions!!!!!

Dating right now wouldn’t be wise for many reasons. You could enjoy friendships though