as far as your mom goes..

idk if it will make you feel any better but my mother is a runner and a former bulimic (her high school and college days) and has never weighed over 120 in her life besides being pregnant. we're the same height but im about 10 pounds heavier than her and always feel like such a cow standing next to her!! she doesnt encourage me to lose weight but just being in a highly competitive and active family i feel pressure to be thin.