Hi SingleGirl,
Can you get your stuff into storage? Do it right away.
As far as work went, apply for unemployment.
Look for another job and take it (temp. job) and save every dime and get out of this home.
Find an apartment (even thru roomates. something or other) and get a dream job next.
We learn from mistakes, that is unless we are not trainable, or incorrigible.
You will not do this again, as it will be easier from a distance to deal with this family.
That way, there is no chance they will suck you dry again.
peace and comfort,
nightbird
p.s. these is a one time only program to help with rent, called homeless prevention - or something like that- and catholic charities and salvation army can help with utilities - try calling everywhere until everything is covered.... and remember the hassle these people put on you next time you are feeling sorry for them.