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Default Jun 26, 2023 at 05:09 PM
 
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Part of it was, I got really red, so maybe my trying to explain myself was an attempt to distract from my red face? It was awkward.
Ah, I see, yes. I can relate in my own way, in terms of awkward questions.

Yup, what I do is give them the simple basic answer then essentially resist the urge to continue explaining myself. And from there maybe just switch the convo to them somehow, while you re-gather your composure.

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