So L will remain in contact with me throughout her leave. It won't be consistent responses, but she will respond when she can. I can email whenever I want. J will update me when L has the baby and how she is doing. G will probably be my interim therapist. L chose him for me because she trusts him, he's kind, and he's a guy so I won't get attached. We will have an introduction session with him together where I'll get to ask him questions and get a feel for him. I get to buy her a pregnancy gift and a gift for the baby. She's going to get me a new transitional object. I get to take all our stuff with me except she's keeping my bracelet and her candle. And she plans on being back in 3-4 months.