I’m afraid that might be too titillating for some straight men imagining two women together. I’m sure some people suspect I am gay too. Someone once told me I was pretty butch for a straight chick.

I could say I’m an asexual though. At this point in my life, I feel like that is the most accurate label for me. But then it opens the door to discussing sexuality and the response “Maybe you just haven’t met the right guy yet.” Which is what this customer said to me when I was trying to explain my lack of boyfriend.

Basically, I told him I don’t have a boyfriend. I don’t want a boyfriend. I’ve dated a variety of men in my life and I am not looking for a boyfriend. I’m not bitter about it though.