Thanks for your post Brian....... as you summed this issue up for me - in laymen's term.

Hubby is quick on the drawl and I am slow to go - takes me forever (well, 10-15 minutes).

Now?
How to solve this problem....... maybe purchase a girthier long vibrator we can use together before he enters?

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Ladies - Men...... what do you think?