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I found after I left & bought my farm, there isn't much fixing or figuring out what needs to be done I can't do....some mtself if I gave the tools & muscle or find the right person to hire. Being only one person sometimes things that need fixed have to bubble up on the priority list before I do them but it is ok.
I had never even lived alone before in my life & I found out 11 years after I left that he was sure I would be back in 2 years....I never looked back & I definitely never went back. Confidence grew the more I (MYSELF) successfully handled life on my own & found people I TRUSTED for suggestions when I didn't know the right people to hire. I have been holding down my 10 acre farm alone for 16 years now. No kids but I started off with 7 dogs, added my horse later & 2 cats. Now I am down to a dog & 2 cats until after I get more repairs done to my farm. Let yourself be free to grow on your own & get your wife's voice out of your head. She is living there rent free & it isn't good for any of you. Seriously even though I had a career as a computer design engineer while I was married, I did more growing up at 54 when I was alone than I ever did in those previous 54 years. Give yourself the chance to grow & you will be a very good dad
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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