Jennifer, meetings like these can unsettled even a fully well person (whatever that it.)
I would write out what you want them to know, like what you wrote above only on a more refined basis. You might add in why you feel you are more capable now than two months ago, etc.
They probably want you to stay, right? So be prepared to do that, they might be right and have good points. However, also write out what you need to change for you to be able to stay there and continue to heal. (I would certainly talk about how you need to be shown respect, and give examples.)
You might also write some of your statements that you include in the above, separately to read again. If they continue to not understand something, you can repeat (read) the statement that you need them to hear and know. This will help you stay strong on those areas you don't wish to compromise.
Good wishes. They are just people doing their jobs, ok? If you have the final say, then realize you're all equal.
I would make sure if you can, and even offer to return in the future should you find yourself having trouble.