I mention my stalker on here a few times and mum said he'd be a good option for me if he changes, now dad hearing this was like over my dead body. He knows about the stalking behaviour and my auntie ana is like why don't you like him. It's just... I mean doesn't me being uncomfortable give enough of a good reason to not want this person as a partner. Also stalking my sister, it's just red flag after red flag and not to mention the time I was high with him and used that opportunity to hump my foot it's just nuts. I felt objectified by him on lots of occasions to me it just smells a disaster if we ever dated. I just don't appreciate feeling that way. I mean respect it's like hmm. I just dunno like I'm not desperate to date anyone and I think I can do a lot better than someone that seems to follow me around. It's just doesn't scream to me healthy relationship dynamics. I mean I'm not an expert on relationships but I know enough about bad relationships to know it would be toxic. I just didn't even like it that they were talking about why I don't want him it's like I just want to study. I mean it took me ages to get to a point of semi decent mental health and finish a course. I just don't feel like I need the distraction of a relationship at the moment and honestly I like how relaxing it is to be single. I just enjoy the peace I have now it's something I've been working for my whole life.