Simply put, tell her you’re choosing your child and divorce her. She doesn’t like your children? Too bad. Your job is to have a home where your kids are welcome, it’s obviously not going to be with her.

If you take off the love glasses you should see many other times you’ve had to make excuses for the way she treated your kids or times she outright treated them as “less than” without a word from you.

This is important. You have chosen her up to now and she thinks you’ll choose her again. Don’t. Show your kids you have their back and pack her stuff for her. This cannot be fixed.