Why didn’t she go with you to the funeral? She sure didn’t support you in your grief.

She sounds very controlling. You have to ask her permission to shop for a necessity at wal mart.

Her having no trust in you about cheating, when you’ve given her no reason to is another big red flag.

She is playing the wicked step mother.

You keep telling her you love her so much while she is being very mean, cold, and controlling to you. This doesn’t sound right for you to be doing in a relationship. You are not making her be any nicer to you by vowing your love.

I’m sorry you are experiencing this. It doesn’t sound good in many ways, not good at all.