Firstly, I am so sorry that this happened to you by someone you trusted. Also, I'm very sorry for the trauma you experienced previously. My heart goes out to you.

He maybe became aggressive towards you to hide his own shame in having cried in front of you. On the other hand, I also question whether he was trying to manipulate you by crying so you wouldn't break up with him. In other words, I wonder whether they were genuine tears...

My gut is saying don't trust this guy, and you were right to breakup with him.


How long ago exactly did you break up?

Have you gone no contact? Has he respected your wishes about not having contact?


It really rattles me that he transgressed your wishes and boundaries when you expressly said 'no', and he was aware of your previous trauma. That scares me, quite frankly, and I am concerned for your safety...


Is he a type of stalker?

Stay safe