Originally Posted by nonightowl
Yeah I do. It's because, I think, we humans don't have as much control as we are led to believe. Crap happens all the time, hitting us like a ton of bricks. Then you think, "What now?"
Yes, this. ^
I've never been much of a planner, because life has taken me where it wants to go, rather than the other way around.
That's not to say that I don't work toward goals or have structure, it's more of an adaptation to go with the flow. It rarely feels set in stone and like something I feel confident counting on coming to pass.
Maybe this is something different, but I've always ascribed to the notion of "not all who wander are lost."
FWIW, I grew up in a very chaotic home, so can see this as an effect of constantly being in survival mode.