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Old Jul 05, 2023 at 08:54 AM
Originally Posted by nonightowl View Post
Yeah I do. It's because, I think, we humans don't have as much control as we are led to believe. Crap happens all the time, hitting us like a ton of bricks. Then you think, "What now?"
Yes, this. ^

I've never been much of a planner, because life has taken me where it wants to go, rather than the other way around.

That's not to say that I don't work toward goals or have structure, it's more of an adaptation to go with the flow. It rarely feels set in stone and like something I feel confident counting on coming to pass.

Maybe this is something different, but I've always ascribed to the notion of "not all who wander are lost."

FWIW, I grew up in a very chaotic home, so can see this as an effect of constantly being in survival mode.

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