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Originally Posted by black-roses
I know how to cook. I just know for me to live in an independent group home would require me to get ndis and in Australia that's a process I have to prove that I have the problems that would require me to go into those kind of homes that your describing that's why I'm trying to apply for ndis again
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Your post said that after the candle was broken you picked up “most” of the shards. Your mother not so gently was pointing out that “most” isn’t going to work with broken glass. Unless everybody intends to take a trip to a hospital. You perceive your mother as wanting you to be perfect, but what she’s asking is for 100% of the glass cleaned up for safety. You may know how to cook but it doesn’t sound like you’re safe on your own.
If you don’t qualify for disability, you’re going to need to find work. I don’t think you’re going to have the luxury of finding the perfect career or getting more education. Either disability with services so you can move or a job ( probably low paying) with perhaps vocational services looks to be in your future. Either way the plan needs to be you moving as soon as you can because it sounds like your mother is at her limit. I’m not sure why the next step for you as an adult hasn’t been taken before now, but it needs to be taken.