no... I am setting boundaries... she knows no boundaries...currently..
she is cutting, hurtful.. and will put me down... and when.. I said that.. it was in reference to.. boundaries...
and I have since ended the friendship...
I did it very directly... I believe in that... and.. I have worked hard for last 3 years to keep this friendship... to grow.. it like we have always done in the past... but.. this time.. no growth happened..
I am a much happier person.. without someone poking me.. and saying nasty things to me...
I don't miss this friendship... I am just done..
I did have breakfast with another friend.. and it is like night/day between them - we laugh, joke.. she encouages.. doesn't judge, try and convict me.. on every word I say...
so... friendships.. do end.. even 27 year old friendships...
my other friend.. knows boundaries.... and that is important in friendships.. and relationships..
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