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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
When women are in their fifties they age in different ways and they have to come to terms with slowly losing a youthful appearance. Most women don’t want to talk about it but they do feel they are losing themselves. It’s not unusual for a woman to start not wanting sex. They can develop ways to distance so they don’t experience the uncomfortable feelings that come with aging. There is a strange powerless feeling the woman doesn’t want to experience and doing certain things or talking about it becomes unpleasant.
You are 58 and could experience a younger woman as many men do. It’s not the same for a woman. This creates a sense of vulnerability that women find very uncomfortable. This can be so uncomfortable that a woman may desire ending marriage as a way to escape.
Society tends to be very cruel when it comes to aging women even when they try to do things to retain a more youthful look.
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I'm just lost. In so many ways.
I do understand what you are saying and for well over a year she has encouraged me to find a sexual partner so she wouldn't feel pressured into lovemaking.
When i asked her to explain this, she said that we are best friends and get along perfectly. If i had someone that could fulfil me sexually, then that would take pressure off of her.
But, being in love with someone just doesn't allow one's heart to accept anything like this.
At 58, (I'm 6-3" 205 pounds) my sexual desire is greater than it ever was, but its also a very complex thing in that i like to start an encounter a few days in advance with romantic poetry and the focal point of every session had to be her climax. I crave her climax more than my own because it means that i did a good job.
My wife told me once, " why you work so hard? Sex is just a feeling. You get horny, you f**k. That's it. Nothing else?"