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Old Jul 06, 2023, 09:52 AM
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Originally Posted by Soupe du jour View Post
Yesterday morning, Hubby and I went to the police station to be interviewed about the criminal complaint we submitted. It took over two hours. It was hot in the station, because like most Czech buildings, there was no AC. It was cooler outside.

In the afternoon, I had an angry exchange with my sister, who lives in the US. She is the executrix of my father's will. She has been keeping many related things secret from me, most likely at the urging of her abusive husband. For example, she apparently accepted an offer for my father's house, but failed to tell me. I found out myself when casually browsing the online listing. When I asked her about it she refused to answer, and responded with a boohooing angry rant. I am certain her husband is basically harassing her 24/7. She has admitted to that in the past. Either way, she is a 58 year old, so is ultimately responsible for her own behavior. A couple weeks back she threatened to relinquish the executrix role, due to stress. I told her she can, if she needs to. She didn't. Truly, I think having a family member be an executor/trix of a will is a horrible idea. Too much stress and conflict for many!
My sister fortunately has her husband at her back. He’s helping her with all the parts of being executrix . I think that makes all the difference in the world. I’m sorry your sister’s husband is such an ***. He could make this easier on her. I hope it all works out for the best.
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