Yes, that's true, but since i am being evaluated or "graded" over past behavior and not present, i am totally convinced that there was no possible outcome other than ending our relationship, because three years ago, i couldn't react to situations like i do now.

Since she refuses to evaluate me on my present emotional capabilities, then i have no regrets, because i subsequently cannot change our future if i am not given the opportunity to do so.

Its sad. I wish there was an alternate ending.