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Originally Posted by will19
I feel like it's wrong to be alone a lot but then I don't what to do about it. I don't have motivation to get out there and at times I don't care if being alone becomes a crisis for me. Believe it or not, I don't even go out to eat or get a take-out. As an older man as myself, I find that making friends with other guys around my age is hard. There are some single guys around my age who live at my place but I find them to be weird. Well maybe I am, too. When I was younger, it seemed like I met real cool guys. But now they seem like zombies. So, I don't know!
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I can relate to all of this. Everyone wants to make me feel bad for wanting to be in my house. Why is that not a legit choice? I think it almost makes me more wanting to do it. I can't understand the question either because at 50+ It isn't as if I have never done anything in my life? I have traveled... I have had pets... kind of done 80% of what I want to do. I am starting to wonder if people who say things are just trying to be mean.
I also don't go out to eat anymore... and you know, mostly it is because I don't love the food.
I have similar situation where I live.. there are about 15+ single women where I live. But 8 or so of them are weird and the other 8 are just not interested in being friends with me. They have sisters / brothers / friends they want to be with.