I love my wife very, very much and i like her as a friend, but I do not feel the desire to continue an active friendship with her once we have settled the finances. She found this a bit puzzling, but to tell me you haven't had any feelings of love for me for several years, but stayed because my income was needed, without ever actually saying so until 5 days ago, doesn't qualify for friendship material in my book.

She's moving to the east coast, and i will remain here in the west, so an active friendship would be impossible anyways.