I've been totally, totally overwhelmed with work and life for months.

I have a Dr appt tomorrow and am ready to ask for paid time off.

My employer isn't entitled to any information as to why I'm off if it's due to illness. But, I have a very tight knit working relationship with my coworkers.

My employer touts mental health, but not truly.

So...

What is my course of action?

1. Off with a dr note, no explanation.

2. Off with a dr note, and a fabricated physical illness or reason.

3. Off with a doctor nite and be honest.

I'm in line for one of two new jobs with my employer. I don't want to cast a cloud over my potential switch in career, but I absolutely need a break.

RDMercer