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Originally Posted by Soupe du jour
@ Samicat, they do sound mighty frugal! And I understand you wishing your brother would finally enjoy something extra, in the the midst of (and after) his cancer treatments. Perhaps if he's not used to treating himself, he doesn't miss not doing so. Or maybe he does worry that his wife and son will need the money, if anything very horrible happens? I hope his cancer goes into remission soon and stays so.
Your nephew will be mighty lucky to get a condo as a present. I agree it sounds spoiling. I assume he's an only child? Or maybe they want to ensure he finally leaves the nest? 
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THANK YOU for responding - I realize that was a LONG post.
I think what really bothers me is that I don't think my brother cares if he lives. He only cares about his wife and son. And his wife is so wrapped up in her son that I'm not sure she cares about her husband.
I mean his chances are really good because the cancer is so small and early stage. But is he going to improve his diet even if it means spending a bit more money? Is he going to think of his own future since he still has 15 more working years?
I want him to find meaning in his own life and his own health. I want him to value HIS life and not just his son's life. Don't get me wrong - I think they are great parents but can also set a good example by valuing themselves and each other, not just their child.
There - I was able to articulate it better now.
