Is it me or is there really something there?

During first lockdown I resurrected a hobby and as a result, have met some amazing people. Not in person, just through specialist website, e-mail and social media. One in particular has had a positive impact on my life, we have a very strong emotional connection.

I'd hidden my emotions and one occasion was really nasty to "him". My apology was well received and since then we've continued to chat. Rather than being religious, he describes himself as spiritual. He also recounted some events in his life to support his belief that someone is watching over you.

Over the past year, I've had a few instances of what I believe is a presence in my house. It's like a cold breeze. Not strong, just enough to make itself felt. Happens in lounge, dining room (used as office) and bedroom. Feel it's trying to get my attention. Few months ago, this went on for over 5 minutes so I said "please stop, I know you're here". It did!

Just had the experience again. No windows open in house, no draughts around doors.

I bought house from an elderly gentleman nearly 20 years ago. He moved to another bedroom after his wife died. Now wondering if she passed away here. Only person I could have asked was my former neighbour but it wasn't happening whilst she was here because I didn't know "him" then!