No. Not the case at all.
That’s the men you meet. I’ve met a few like that myself but I’ve met cold and unloving women too. I don’t think it’s gender specific. People are people. I think the trick is to turn away from people like this. Don’t stick around. The minute you noticed they are cold and unemotional and/or angry, don’t date them, don’t be friends and certainly don’t marry them