My of wife of 10 months, 6 years together, left me. She's saying she left because because of two reasons.

1. The pressure a relationship puts on her. She says she wants to do what she wants, when she wants... And doesn't want that nagging feeling that she is expected to make time for me. Not the relationship with me personally, just in a relationship in general.

2. Because she doesn't want children in her life. She's been with me for 6 years and I had my kids since day one with her, from a previous marriage. She said "I don't want to be there for my kids" I don't get it.

Another thing to acknowledge is that she normally doesn't show much emotion.

During this speration she's shown ZERO empathy and doesn't seem effected by this at all. She's just living as if nothing happened, while my kids and I moved into my mom's spare room.

She keeps reiterating that she wants to be in my life as a friend and she is very adamant that she loves me and is still in love. Not to mention she wants to keep physical intimacy on the table.

How do I even process this?

I need some insight. Please.