So, as the title says this is the second time this has happened to me. People have told me that since I am in recovery this is quite common. I know I went through a rehab program, but I thought I made friends there.

I can't control other's actions, but I really feel crappy. Both times this happened it really seemed like they wanted to see how I was and how I was doing, but then quickly turned to "can I get $20?"

Sorry, just wanted to rant, and was wondering if this ever happened to you, and how did you deal with it?