Wonderful post Rap,

and Single Girl, i understand what you are saying.

please continue to write out your issue as you realize it, and hopefully you will be able to turn this around for yourself, and possibly others.

i have used my guy as a T because i don't have one presently, and it does not work - as you know. we change what the relationship was meant to be.

anyway, thanks for posting this important issue. it applies to those in therapy also, who go overboard with their therapist-patient relationship.

peace and respect,
nightbird