Yes, so I finished Codependent No More. It was very interesting but I definitely only identify with the part that is talking about never thinking about what you want. A lot of the other stuff was pretty foreign to me and I do feel lucky that is the case. Either way it was very interesting reading and I actually think my H has a very codependent relationship with his father so that was enlightening to put the pieces together on that. My copy of Angry Smile finally arrived today and I am very excited to delve into it. We've reached a status quo more or less here for now but I can't wait to read all about the PA behaviors and how to better deal with them, I think it will end up helping me a lot!