She really is a great person. Super sweet, but incredibly blunt and truthful.

I was once totally unable to see how my actions affected others.

I was selfish, which i came by naturally as an only child, and i never was able to pick up on signals, so i spent a long time not understanding why someone was hurt and couldn't see how i had hurt them.

I learned this only through therapy.

About a year ago, i had an experience where my eyes opened and i began to see all the things i had been oblivious too.

I could suddenly feel what others felt or how something i said or did had hurt them. It was like taking off a blindfold.

But, i guess it was too late to save us.