I don't believe that you did anything wrong. You did what seemed right, and I think many people would have responded similarly.

What bothers me is your husband's reaction. Telling you that you shouldn't go out, that you lack communication skills and that you make a bad situation worse? Your husband is completely demeaning you, belittling you, and is trying to scare you into isolation from the world! I've taken a look at your past threads. Your husband is abusive! Do you see and recognize that he is abusive to you? If not, please look up on Google "emotional and verbal abuse tactics" or "emotional, psychological and verbal abuse tactics" and see if his behaviors match what you read.

I read your recent thread/post about men being unemotional, lacking empathy, and cold, ie, meaning your husband is this way.

I think you should reevaluate your marriage and consider leaving him. Abuse never gets any better, abusers do not change or improve with therapy (very rarely, if ever), and it's all a huge waste of your time and energy to try to improve someone's behavior who is abusive.

I would leave your dirtbag of a husband and use Uber from now on.