I'm so sorry inky, no one deserves this kind of treatment. Not even a little bit. I agree that a forum where people can rant and rave might not be a bad idea. Might keep some of it out of chat. Regardless, as the others said, PLEASE be safe. Let the police know. Save the IM's that are sent for the police to see. Maybe they can do dome kind of trace on his screen name. It's worth a shot if you haven't already tried. You are in my prayers. Safe hugs if you want them.

Ryan