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Old Jul 15, 2023, 01:38 PM
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Originally Posted by Discombobulated View Post
@jesyka where I live we actually have a law which protects the rights on an individual to make unwise decisions. It’s called The Care Act and it covers people who may have mental and physical disabilities including learning disabilities- it means people (family or social workers) can’t easily take over someone’s life choices even if they’ve made unwise decisions. Many countries have such a law.

I’m mentioning this because your posts come across to me like okay you may have made some mistakes but your husband seems to think he can tell you what to do and even curtail your freedom. He doesn’t have that right.
I didn’t know anything about that act. Where do you live btw? Thanks for letting me know that! I live in Ca. btw.

I have really fought him hard on him trying to control me! He tried to change my personality & whole way of thinking before! Example, he tried to force me to be friends with his mom who I hate. Long story short, she slapped me across the back once in public then last ghed in my face. I threatened to call the cops on her for assault! She lied & said it was a ‘friendly’ slap on the back! B.S!

I banned that evil liar from out house! He believed her though & threatened to leave me in Reno for sticking up for myself! Wth? Eff her!

I’m also a shy introverted person & he called me weird & anti social & tried to force me to socialize with his friends who’d ignore me. They didn’t like me & woulld talk in their own language despite knowing English

He finally stopped trying to force all rhat b.s on me after years of trying to get me to be someone that I’m not.
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