I personally do not feel that the word holocaust belongs exclusively to the Jewish community.
I'll probably get dragged for that, but it's okay ...
The Native Americans experienced a holocaust by Europeans in my humble opinion ...
It may not have been on the exact same scale, but to me it was a holocaust for them nonetheless.
I've oft referred to my childhood experiences as my own personal holocaust.
Anytime a person or group of people is systematically targeted to be completely annihilated simply because of who or what they are THAT IS A HOLOCAUST for them ... Period!
If anyone takes offense to that, I'm sorry, but it's the absolute truth!
With all that being said, unfortunately we cannot make anybody love or care about us, and the haters are always gonna be out there, so ...
The best thing we can do is learn to love ourselves and practice a lot of self-care accordingly.