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Originally Posted by eskielover
Sadly when we hear only one side of the story we tend to be judgmental against the person being talked about. I know I was judged by my in-laws (only family of mine that was still alive besides my daughter) as being a horrible person when I finally walked out on my husband for my own sanity & oh I was such a bad person for fighting against his financial irresponsibility all those years....seriously we need to be wise about not being judgmental. Judging me just reinforced his foolishness & that sure didn't do him any favors. Sometimes it is hard to really tell what is abuse or not & we who don't know the full picture need to be careful. My response to my now ex was abusive but so was his behavior that I was responding to
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True, I always say no one knows what goes on in a relationship other than two people (even then sometimes even they don’t fully realise).
Jesyka I’m sorry if I overstepped a boundary but I hope you’ll be aware of how this situation is affecting your well being.